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"Do you know when you'll be chatting with the Haim sisters?" an inquiry arrives. "I wanted to ask if I can join as their fourth member."

There's just a key snag: The author likewise wants to be Haim's newest recruit. And we're in plentiful company. Multiple high-profile admirers have publicly coveted the honor.

One thing is obvious something is going on. The siblings Este, Danielle and Alana launched their path performing shows at neighborhood delis with their parents. Today, they are repeated Grammy Award contenders.

In the tradition of the greatest bands, they're a close unit. Their visuals frequently show them marching in sync down the avenues of Los Angeles. In concert, they play with such pure joy you inevitably think, "I wish to be part of that, too."

"The amount of times on tour that audience members came up to us and said, 'Seeing you perform, I picked up a drum kit'," remarks Alana, the most junior of the sisters. "That is the ultimate compliment. That is recognition in itself. We've done our job if we can inspire people to start a band."

"And thus all are welcome to be the next part of the family."

Historic Recognition

The band are connecting from their homes, where they're resting up after an major tour in for their fourth album, I Quit.

They're right now celebrating the news it's been nominated for a top rock honor at the Grammys – with Haim the very first all-female band ever in contention for the trophy.

"I watch the nominations every year, so it almost feels like an out-of-body experience when your name is called," says Alana. "I had to call my sisters to say, 'Did we just hear this correctly or am I hallucinating'?"

The weight of the accolade is deeply felt by the band.

"We really set out to make a rock album this time, so it's a major achievement," adds Alana. "But we're just thankful for the pioneers that paved the way."

Personal Turmoil and Humour

The project emerged from a time of transition. All three sisters were single, and the music inhabits that strange transitional period where you're happy to be free, but not entirely ready to start anew.

The themes follow breakups and partings. The sisters seek love, but not the specific love they've experienced. You can hear them determining in the moment who they aspire to be.

"I love description, yes," says Danielle. "I Quit is like a slogan. You have to make an effort in blocking the criticism and saying, 'I couldn't care less what people think'."

Refinement of Style

That developed toughness called for a fresh approach – more raw and direct than anything the band had done before.

For Danielle, who helped produce the album, that was founded on the percussion.

"Drums are such a nuanced thing, and I focus so intensely about it," she says.

"'Journey of the drum sound' will be the name of our memoir," jokes Alana. "I always say, our albums don't start until we find the right drum sound."

Anecdotes and Shared Humor

The trio's candor fueled the album's marketing, where the sisters disclosed some of their personal misadventures.

A former partner left Este over a health consideration. Alana recalled a story of flying to celebrate New Year's Eve with someone, only to receive a casual gesture at midnight.

"During these heartbreaks, you just feel like there's no light," notes Alana. "Therefore to be able to laugh at those stories and have them tell you more outrageous stories, it's so amazing."

An Assured Legacy

It's not difficult sense a shift in the band. Today, Haim are more confident of their standing in the music world.

They're festival headliners, with successful albums and an global fan base.

However the sister act will always be their primary priority.

"We have been playing music since I was four," shares Alana. "It feels as if nothing else that we were meant to do. And I'm really grateful we've made it and we're still making music."